Saturday, October 27, 2012

Eric is going to be a family history missionary!


Pres. Egbert called this afternoon. He received Eric's mission call for the Family History mission today! Since earlier this week Elder Brandon's office had sent us an email with some forms to fill out (but not telling us that Eric was accepted), it wasn't really a surprise. We thought the extra paperwork meant Eric was accepted, but we weren't 100% sure.

The surprise was when Eric reports to Salt Lake--my birthday, Friday, December 7th, which is 6 weeks from yesterday. I was freaking out just a little. Eric says he is excited. I'm excited too, but still freaking.

We were thinking it would be January or even February. I had been hoping that we didn't have to wait around till February and was even wondering last week if December was even possible. But now that it's happening that way, I am feeling this is all so unreal.

So, with Eric leaving for 2 years in December, Ryan hoping to leave for his mission after winter semester, and then Hannah wanting to go on a mission when she turns 19 (and she turns 19 just 5 days before Eric's mission will end), we might go 3 1/2 years or more without us all being together. I know plenty of families have gone longer than that, but it's just mind-boggling.

Still freaking out.

So much to do.

So excited.

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Trunk or Treat at Church:
Eric, dressed as the Nyan Cat--part cat, part poptart, at the ward party
click here for a totally annoying clip of the nyan cat's song
Alex, dressed as a school kid--see the Alfalfa-like hair sticking up in the back?
Becky and Hannah starting a new project

Salt Lake Temple project, completed

My project was easier, though not as pretty as theirs: clean the headlights using toothpaste, a rag, and some water. Took 2 minutes and it made a big difference:
before:
 after:

Monday, October 22, 2012

my sister's talk on the power of words

My most wonderful sister recently spoke at a Relief Society Retreat. She sent me her talk and I have posted it on my other blog. Check it out.

Here is a teaser:
If it is not OK for you to constantly barrage your children, your neighbors, your co-workers, your spouse, your friends, with complaints and name-calling and put-downs, then why in the world do we think it is OK to do this to ourselves? Do we really think that our Father in Heaven is perfectly fine with this? It is just as wrong for us to do this to ourselves as it would be for us to do this to someone else.  YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD AND YOU SHOULD BE TREATED THAT WAY, EVEN BY YOURSELF!!

http://mypensieve-beth.blogspot.com/2012/10/my-sisters-talk-words-that-inspire.html

Sunday, October 21, 2012

more on our visit to the Family & Church History Headquarters Mission

Here are some more details of our visit last Wednesday to meet with Elder Brandon and look into Eric serving a f amily history mission there.

We met with Elder Brandon on the 3rd floor in the Joseph Smith Memorial Building (JSMB). We spent a little over 2 hours with him. Sister Brandon was with us for part of the time.

One of the first things he did was to take us to meet with the President of the Utah Salt Lake City Temple Square Mission, President Wayne S. Peterson (click on his name to go to his biography).

President Peterson and his wife were wonderful. He only talked to us for a few minutes. He told us a little bit about himself, pointed out an excellent, original oil painting of Joseph Smith that the artist did using the death mask of Joseph so as to get the face proportions right (and Pres. Peterson hopes that someday copies of it can be sold...and I a gree, it was a fabulous painting), and asked us some questions (though for the life of me, I can't remember what he asked). Pres. Peterson said something to Eric like, "I like you already."

Then Elder Brandon talked to us, took us on a tour, and then talked to us some more.

Some interesting tidbits:

The Utah Salt Lake City Temple Square Mission is the smallest mission area-wise...it only takes in a few blocks. It has the most missionaries of any mission (1,160).  He also claimed/joked that they can boast of the most baptisms of any missions as well...due to the Salt Lake Temple and the f amily history work that goes on there. This mission is the only mission where the President is called to serve for only 2 years and not 3.

Our first stop on the tour was the training area. New family history missionaries have a 2 week training period there where they get one-on-one training using a computer and their own 5 generations pedigree chart. A lovely snack table with fruits, vegetables, and treats was set up and Elder Brandon said there was food everywhere and called it the "20 pound mission," and we did see several tables on our tour. Eric and Elder Brandon enjoyed some licorice later on, but Glen and I refrained.

Anyway, we got to see a few rooms in the JSMB where some work was done (the help room for family history center directors was there), as well as some of the 70 young elders in this mission. Elder Brandon had explained to Eric that the young missionaries each had their own personalities and their differences were called "quirks" here. Some are visible and some are not. When we met with them, we could see some of it. It was great. They were great.

Then we went to the Family History Library (FHL). We got to go into back areas and see some work being done on projects like cutting apart books so they could be digitized. We saw them scanning as well. As I said, Glen and I are ready to sign up and serve there, too. It was amazing. There were editing rooms and the "blocking" room (where non-essential info--such as luggage on a ship's manifest--is blocked out of a digital record). Part of the mission is also the granite mountain vault--which sadly we did not get to see, but only 2-3 young elders serve there at a time. To work there you need to pass an extensive background check.

We stood on a corner and just looked across to the apartments that the missionaries use. They are "standard missionary apartments," though I'm not 100% sure what Elder Brandon meant by that.

The young missionaries are assigned a companion, but they do not have to stay with their companions while they are in their 2-3 block mission area (as they often have different assigments--one might be serving in the FHL while the other is in the JSMB). But they cannot go "off-campus" without permission and without their companion...that includes to the food court in the mall just south of Temple Square. They are assigned a different companion about every 3 months or so. Their assignments are also changed occasionally on "transfer" day.

They have district and zone meetings and are encouraged to teach each other from the "Preach My Gospel" manual; therefore, they are proclaiming the gospel to each other. They are given one scripture/quote a month to memorize if they can.

They get 4 hours a week to work on their own research...I think it was called P & R--Glen and I can't wait to have Eric tackle some of our brickwalls if he gets called to this mission.

They are required to go to the Salt Lake Temple at least once a month, but can go more often--some go every week during their P & R time. They are also occasionally driven to other temples in the area. If there's a live family sealing taking place in the Salt Lake Temple, they are allowed to attend the sealing--not the photo session or the luncheon, but they are allowed to go to the sealing.

A young elder will not be asked to serve in an area that would not "fit" with their quirks. For example, some would not want to work with the public, so they would not be put in an assignment that would have them dealing with patrons.

They are not allowed to proselyte. If they are on Temple Square and are asked about the church, they can answer basic questions, but then direct the person to one of the proselyting missionaries there. They are encouraged not to give money to the panhandlers, but are encouraged to pay fast offering to help the poor. There is a booth on the west side of Temple Square where those truly in need can go and transportation to a local soup kitchen will be arranged.

There is a missionary choir they can join and this choir sometimes performs elsewhere. They have firesides twice a month. They sometimes bump into General Authorities. There are devotionals every Monday and they have guest speakers.

Sunday mornings they are encouraged to attend the weekly Mormon Tabernacle Choir broadcast of Music and the Spoken Word and have church in the afternoon in the JSMB--they are all in the same ward, but the ward has 2 Elder's Quorums.

They are driven to Walmart on P-days to go grocery shopping where they have about $40 a week to spend on food. They do their own laundry. There is a nurse available in the JSMB. They are taken to dentist and doctor's appointments as needed.

They live regular prosyleting missionary rules--to bed at 10:30 and up at 6:30, only e-mail immediate family members, no TV or computers (except to email home and do their family history--although they were allowed some political info online since it's an election year and they could research that so they would know how they wanted to vote).

The first Friday of each month is the day for the new missionaries to arrive. So, if Eric gets called to this mission, he would be starting his mission on January 4th, 2013 (or February 1st). The Saturday morning following, there is a swap meet where the missionaries who are going home can leave things for the other missionaries. The new missionaries get first crack at the items, and then the other missionaries can take from what is left.

We don't know how long it will take to hear back. Elder Brandon will mail a letter to our Stake President who will then mail it to us or bring it to us. 

As I was googling President Peterson's name I came across a blog of a couple who wrote about their first week as family history missionaries in August of 2011. They have photos of Pres. and Sister Peterson, Elder Kuchar--a trainer we met, as well as of Elder Morse--one of the young missionaries we met--and the swap meet. Click here to see their photos.

Two articles dealing with the Temple Square Mission that are old and have some outdated information in them, but are still interesting, can be found here:

A Unique Mission

Delighted to Serve

Thursday, October 18, 2012

Operation "Surprise Dad" was a success and Eric's trip to Salt Lake

My Dad's 80th birthday was Sunday October 14th. At the end of the summer, my sister Denise came up with the idea of surprising Dad.

She flew to Reno on Friday night. We headed out to Oregon early Saturday and arrived around 2:40. Luckily, Dad was out walking his dog, Cricket, so Mom hid the car and we sat on the couch and waited. Dad walked in still listening to his audio book, so he didn't hear us giggling. Finally, he raised his head and looked at us for a few seconds with a totally blank look on his face. Then all of a sudden recognition dawned in his face and he slowly began to smile. He was very surprised and very happy to have us there. We were able to stay almost 48 hours. It was a GREAT visit.

The 2 highlights of his birthday were our visit and the fact that his New York Giants won their football game even though no one (including my Dad) thought they would.

Dad and his birthday blueberry muffin
Dad and Mom at the harbor

It was rainy and misty while we were there and we loved it

The Loch Ness monster made an appearance

Cricket and Denise (sorry, I don't know how to get ride of pet "demon eyes")

So, Denise and I arrived here Monday night, and first thing Tuesday morning I had to drive her to the airport so she could get home.

I arrived back in Fallon, we loaded up the car, and discovered we had a very flat tire...I had just bought brand new tires 5 days previously and was feeling frustrated that our trip was delayed. But Les Schwab got us back on the road quickly, so we weren't too far off scheduled.

Turned out to be OK because our delay in starting allowed us to miss some rain and bad traffic in between Salt Lake and Provo. We visited with Andrew, Heather, and even Sarah for a bit, before heading back to the hotel. Sadly, I had my camera in my purse and forgot to take any pictures.

Headed to Salt Lake and made it just a little bit early for our 9 am meeting with Elder Terry Brandon. We met with President Peterson, President of the Salt Lake Temple Square mission, which includes these young family history missionaries. Elder Brandon is not a mission president, but is directly over these young missionaries.

We were there for over 2 hours receiving a tour. It was FABULOUS. Glen and I want to sign up. We saw different areas in the family history library and met some of the young Elders, including one (Elder Tyler Duckworth) who asked us if we knew Andrew. Turns out Elder Duckworth and Andrew were in the same ward their freshman year at BYU.

I don't know how long it will take for them to get back to us, but we will hear from them relatively soon as to whether Eric is called to their mission or not.

If he is called, the first opening they have was January 4th...right when Ryan goes back to BYU-I with his cousin Jake as his new roommate. If they don't have any spots in January (Elder Brandon was just thinking off the top of his head), then February 1st would be the next start date.

After our meeting with Elder Brandon, Teresa met up with us and we took in a session in the Salt Lake Temple together. It was great. Teresa is a grandmother again...Bryce and his wife, Erika, had a baby girl, Ivy June, on Monday. Mother and baby are doing well.

So, I've had enough traveling for a while, but it sure was great.

Here's one of the 3 rainbows we saw while heading into Utah

Teresa, Eric, and Beth

Glen, Eric, and Beth (didn't get one of him smiling)


Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Alex turned 12 and was ordained to the Priesthood today

Happy 12th Birthday Alex!

in the morning, opening a gift before school

Uncle Gary, Grandpa, Bishop Wadsworth, Glen, Uncle Alan, Eric, Uncle David, and Alex

Hannah, Glen, Alex, Beth, and Eric

Alex and Glen

Thomas, Ben, Alex, Hannah, (Grandpa)
Yep. It was quite a day. My youngest turned 12. We're blessed to live so close to family so that Grandma and Grandpa, David and Jackie, Alan and Carey, Kathy and Gary, Becky, Joseph, Thomas, and Ben, plus Bishop Wadsworth could all come over. Glen conferred the Aaronic Priesthood on Alex and ordained him to the office of a deacon. Alex will be able to pass the sacrament this Sunday and go on the temple trip on the 20th. Very exciting times. Congratulations Alex!



Monday, October 1, 2012

good things happening

My sister's good news:

Her son, Zach, and his wife, Stephanie, are expecting their first child in May and Zach also just was inducted into the Air Force last week!

Her son, Jake, was just accepted to BYU-I! We are waiting to hear what track he will be assigned, but we hope he can room with Michael and Ryan in the winter.

Pretty darn exciting.

My good news:

Hannah's tennis season is now over. Glen and I got to watch her play on Thursday. Such fun. She and her doubles partner/twin Becky did great (they won one match and lost another).



Eric went through the temple on Saturday! He's one step closer to being able to serve a family history mission in Salt Lake.



Alex had his interview with the Bishop for having the Aaronic Priesthood conferred upon him. It will probably occur on October 10th, his 12th birthday. His first temple trip for baptisms for the dead will happen on the 20th. Amazing.

And not quite so eternal in its significance, but still thrilling in its own arena:

Our washer broke this weekend, and with the use of google, Glen was able to repair it! Cost: $0.00. Matter of fact, we made 22¢ and 4 bobby pins in the deal as they were rescued from the inside of the washer.

Pretty darn exciting.